Girls Suck.

Given, I myself am a girl, yes. But, after experiencing the 'unsaid' and the things that are 'said,' I've come to a conclusion that girls have a mental and emotional problem. Me included.

I mean, really. If you think about it, it's come to a point where when girls say "I'm fine" absolutely everyone knows there's a problem. Girls want you to inquire, so they feel like you care. Other side, girls want you to ask to prove that you do care. From personal experience, not the road you want to take. Why not be an adult and actually say the problem? I've gotten to the point where beating around the bush takes just too long, that's why people think I'm a cynical mean bitch. Well, I'm not going to apologize for it, it's just faster. When these things happen, if you don't ask a girl what's wrong, then all the problems start. "Why didn't he/she ask?" to "NO ONE LOVES ME," to "I HATE YOU FOREVER."As a high school-er, drama is most definitely intended and most likely to happen. You're around the same people every day and when there's a situation, it spreads like wildfire. Then interpretations happen and voila, everyone knows a different story and everyone's mad. I've gotten to that point before. But now, for me, it's just "I'm fine. Don't ask. Let me deal with my problems." Only people I want advice from, are the ones I tell/ask for help. Usually problems are all in the head. As a girl, I accept this, but don't spread it around. So that's kind of hypocritical. When I'm pissed, I'm pissed. It happens to be that I take my rage out on everyone, but then again, that's how I deal with rage and rage alone. Too bad for the people that are in my way or get involved, but after, I'm better.

It's releasing the problem that helps. If you keep it to yourself, then what happens? Your psychological self concocts some stupid reasoning for what happened. Why not confront the problem? I've learned that being passive aggressive, as my family usually handles things, isn't the best road. I had to learn the hard way, but you learn eventually. Stop being so sensitive. Yeah, it's normal to feel emotions but don't take something so out of control.

My male friends tells me some girls are 'fragile' and you have to 'handle' them a certain way. Oh my lord. Fragile? Girls need to know that inside, you want to be more powerful than anyone else out there, people love (yes love) power. It's just something that's innate. If you act fragile, to get to this power, people only see that you're fragile and nothing else. Women fought for equal rights and now, if you just witness what's going on today, yes women have a place in the workforce, we make money, we can vote, but no one treats women differently. Know why? Cause we still act like we're the same dumb bitches that tend to the house. You want power, get it. Stop being so fragile, and have guys have to 'treat you like a princess' for you to feel loved and wanted. If you have a family, friends, a pet even, you are loved, don't take to other people who barely know you, or you've dated for a year to make you believe that you're worth something.

If all goes wrong, we whine and cry and talk in baby voices. What does that do? Does that make you feel more womanly? Does your "man" like that? People like you for who you are, not what they make you to be. Since when do you have to prove to someone you're more feminine and socially accepted to feel happy in your life? Happiness is key. Even though I rage a lot and people cry a lot, I know that it's just that moment. My life isn't over even when I say it is then. Tomorrow's another day. Happiness comes back. If you wallow in your sadness or rage forever how does that help you? Everyone is luckier than they think they are, they just fail to recognize it. Girls wallow. Girls hold grudges. Girls depend on other people to compliment and reassure them that they are what they think they are. Be independent. Stop fishing for compliments and finding people to make you feel better about yourself. If you are who you are, people will either accept or deny you. That's it. Black and white.

Girls, women, female human beings. Let me preach to you a little more. If you stop worrying about what everyone thinks and take your issues and solve them in appropriate time, you will live a happy life. Appreciate what you have and disband yourself from people and things that make you think otherwise. It just leads to unnecessary stupid thoughts and creations of invalid arguments. Get a hold of yourself. Live to be you. Live for you. Happiness is key.