Can someone please help me find a job so I can start my career and get out of this place?
I swear, the longer I stay, the worse it gets. That's why people do not live at home, especially in a place where the house is definitely, not a home. Instead it's an infested place that's perfect for breeding passive aggressive nonsensical anger. My siblings are both the same, both are present hedonistic people who do not like to think about their future. They think now is forever, but if you're going to grow up, you need to think about the future. The only way to move forward if to plan for the future. Yes, we all want to "be children" forever. Or do we? Is it because we have no responsibilities? Because we mooch off our parents? Because we don't have to move forward with out lives? Are people not just the least bit curious of what they could be? What they can work toward? How do you think Steve Jobs became who he was? How did new technologies evolve? Why are we so aware of social responsibility and environmentally friendly companies? Passion drives us to our futures, to ensuring our future lives will be better. If we all focus on the now, there will be no tomorrow.
Don't throw that "I could die any second" bull to me, because I know life is short. We can make the most of our lives now even if we think toward the future. It's called being spontaneous, that's what playing hooky is for. I'm not asking for them to plan each day of their lives, I'm asking them to set a goal and be responsible about it. My parents won't be alive forever, but they don't care. They think they'll live well forever. You know, at my brother's age I was thinking about where I was going to go to school, how I should study for my SATs, what do I like doing, who do I want to be when I grow up? My brother focuses on getting a girlfriend, porn, and his "friends." His friends who use my family's money to throw themselves parties and wreck our basement. Friends who think drinking and driving are cool. Friends that ignore him when he has problems to discuss. Yes, those friends. He, well not he entirely, my sister as well are going to drive this family into the dark hole of bankruptcy - of morality and wealth.
I need a job to be able to support myself when all of this happens. In about 2 years. So I need a job now to save up and run away.
Saturday, June 19, 2010
Racism.
I was watching this video and it brought up the issue of racism for models in the fashion world. (This is focusing mainly on American racism.)
I like how there are so many various issues when it comes to racism and it usually resorts back to how there is tension between black and white. But, if you watch the video there's also a mention of the same discrimination for asian women and worse for latina women. Given, not all of us have the potential to be models because our races are known to be shorter, but there are always a token few that want to and are tall enough to be in the fashion industry. What I'm wondering is, people who bring up racism are the ones who question theirs and others races or ethnicity. I know that we are all a little racist - if you say you aren't, you lie - but why is it that it's always black people who are singled out? From what I observe, the politically correct term is no longer African American because except for a few people, most of the black generation is born and raised in the U.S. Yes, although black people, even asian people have ancestry in other countries, if you are not a first generation or second generation child, then you are completely American. I say this because first generation children may carry some cultural values of their parents while adapting to the American culture, and second generation children only get a fraction of what their parents picked up from their parents and are basically fully immersed in the American culture.
Yes, black people have endured slavery and racism, but don't asians and latinas suffer the same racist attitudes as well? Latinas are more hidden and it seems that most are either still with green cards or first generation. Asian people however are less hidden but speak up less against others because of our nature (again, first generation children). Asians and Latino/latinas are now stereotyped as blue collar workers that are experiencing the same work and treatment black people used to endure? The only difference is, they get paid a very small wage. Fair or not?
Do you think it's okay for people to say "ni hao" or "ching chang chong" where ever we go? Do you think it's funny? Because I for one, don't think so. It's not just white people that are extremely racist, black, asian, latina, blue, purple, red people are all racist but not everyone speaks out against it. Most asian people have to suffer from stereotypes and racism but we rarely say anything because we choose not to arouse conflict, but if we do, there's a huge debacle about how we're racist (especially with black or latino/latinas). Sorry it's difficult for us to fit in, sorry it's difficult for you to fit in, but we're all in America, trying to make it through the day, there is no reason for anyone to think that only one race is singled out or that faces more discrimination than another. It's America, it's a white country. Unless you're rich or gorgeous and white, it's going to be difficult. I just don't think it's okay for this video to show that it's usually black people that face harsh criticism when all races face the same discrimination. The girl never talks about that, only that because she's black, people are racist against her. Only the woman that works at the magazine informs us that it's a variety of races and ethnic people that face the same discrimination, even though she's only in the film for a minute or two.
I like how there are so many various issues when it comes to racism and it usually resorts back to how there is tension between black and white. But, if you watch the video there's also a mention of the same discrimination for asian women and worse for latina women. Given, not all of us have the potential to be models because our races are known to be shorter, but there are always a token few that want to and are tall enough to be in the fashion industry. What I'm wondering is, people who bring up racism are the ones who question theirs and others races or ethnicity. I know that we are all a little racist - if you say you aren't, you lie - but why is it that it's always black people who are singled out? From what I observe, the politically correct term is no longer African American because except for a few people, most of the black generation is born and raised in the U.S. Yes, although black people, even asian people have ancestry in other countries, if you are not a first generation or second generation child, then you are completely American. I say this because first generation children may carry some cultural values of their parents while adapting to the American culture, and second generation children only get a fraction of what their parents picked up from their parents and are basically fully immersed in the American culture.
Yes, black people have endured slavery and racism, but don't asians and latinas suffer the same racist attitudes as well? Latinas are more hidden and it seems that most are either still with green cards or first generation. Asian people however are less hidden but speak up less against others because of our nature (again, first generation children). Asians and Latino/latinas are now stereotyped as blue collar workers that are experiencing the same work and treatment black people used to endure? The only difference is, they get paid a very small wage. Fair or not?
Do you think it's okay for people to say "ni hao" or "ching chang chong" where ever we go? Do you think it's funny? Because I for one, don't think so. It's not just white people that are extremely racist, black, asian, latina, blue, purple, red people are all racist but not everyone speaks out against it. Most asian people have to suffer from stereotypes and racism but we rarely say anything because we choose not to arouse conflict, but if we do, there's a huge debacle about how we're racist (especially with black or latino/latinas). Sorry it's difficult for us to fit in, sorry it's difficult for you to fit in, but we're all in America, trying to make it through the day, there is no reason for anyone to think that only one race is singled out or that faces more discrimination than another. It's America, it's a white country. Unless you're rich or gorgeous and white, it's going to be difficult. I just don't think it's okay for this video to show that it's usually black people that face harsh criticism when all races face the same discrimination. The girl never talks about that, only that because she's black, people are racist against her. Only the woman that works at the magazine informs us that it's a variety of races and ethnic people that face the same discrimination, even though she's only in the film for a minute or two.
Monday, June 7, 2010
Purgatory.
So, I'm in that awkward time between graduation and finding a job. At first, I thought it wouldn't be too much of a problem as long as my parents respected my space and encourage me to keep looking for a job. I always think the best of them. I fail in that field. Things are just not going well. There was a reason I was so unhappy in New Jersey and now I've figured out why. You know how families are supposed to be supportive and close and love you? Our family is the Asian WASP family. There is no acknowledging problems and whatever you do is your own business. What happens happens. And if you have a problem, too bad.
So, I got rejected from a few...well more than a few positions. After I reached the final round of interviews and the waiting period of either yes or no, they always end up with another person. I don't understand. I thought the whole process of going through various interviews would help me, I guess not. It's just really disappointing. Debbie Downer is in full effect. I've never really been rejected my whole life, and now, it's just a flood of them. It's breaking my heart and it's not even a man. I just want to be successful, but I can't even get my foot in the door. Internships were a breeze. People said it was more difficult to get an internship than a job. For me, it's the opposite. It's always the opposite! Whenever I think I do well on a test, I fail, whenever I think I did well in an interview, I did terrible, what I think is acceptable in attire, is not. Does my luck or my mind even care about my future? I swear. I am never lucky. Except when it comes to Broadway Rush tickets. Too bad, because I wrote that, I'll probably never win one again. A few interns I worked with last semester with less experience in the working field secured jobs in the fields I was looking for. They got jobs at networks I didn't look at, but they still got positions. I'm no where. I thought working hard would get me somewhere. Should I regret that? I don't even know what to do anymore.
My friend brought over her motorcycle today. All I want to do is get one and drive as far as I possible can. That's all I want. Seriously. No job thinks I'm qualified so why should I think I am? Friends keep telling me to get a retail job like it's okay. They wouldn't even stoop to that level and they expect me to? What are you thinking? You think I can support myself working a retail job? I'd still have to live at home. I'd be miserable at work and at home. It leads to suicide. That's what I'm thinking about right now. Just never in the mood to do anything anymore. I keep trying to keep this happy facade for the employers, but it just gets to the point where I can't even do it anymore.
Kill me now. This is what purgatory feels like right? I don't want to be here.
So, I got rejected from a few...well more than a few positions. After I reached the final round of interviews and the waiting period of either yes or no, they always end up with another person. I don't understand. I thought the whole process of going through various interviews would help me, I guess not. It's just really disappointing. Debbie Downer is in full effect. I've never really been rejected my whole life, and now, it's just a flood of them. It's breaking my heart and it's not even a man. I just want to be successful, but I can't even get my foot in the door. Internships were a breeze. People said it was more difficult to get an internship than a job. For me, it's the opposite. It's always the opposite! Whenever I think I do well on a test, I fail, whenever I think I did well in an interview, I did terrible, what I think is acceptable in attire, is not. Does my luck or my mind even care about my future? I swear. I am never lucky. Except when it comes to Broadway Rush tickets. Too bad, because I wrote that, I'll probably never win one again. A few interns I worked with last semester with less experience in the working field secured jobs in the fields I was looking for. They got jobs at networks I didn't look at, but they still got positions. I'm no where. I thought working hard would get me somewhere. Should I regret that? I don't even know what to do anymore.
My friend brought over her motorcycle today. All I want to do is get one and drive as far as I possible can. That's all I want. Seriously. No job thinks I'm qualified so why should I think I am? Friends keep telling me to get a retail job like it's okay. They wouldn't even stoop to that level and they expect me to? What are you thinking? You think I can support myself working a retail job? I'd still have to live at home. I'd be miserable at work and at home. It leads to suicide. That's what I'm thinking about right now. Just never in the mood to do anything anymore. I keep trying to keep this happy facade for the employers, but it just gets to the point where I can't even do it anymore.
Kill me now. This is what purgatory feels like right? I don't want to be here.
Monday, May 3, 2010
End of it All.
Well, I guess it is the end of it all... my college career is over, no more child-like behavior, from now on it's interviews and responsibilities. At first, I was all set to graduate, nothing was going to stop me, but now all I can think about is what I could have done to make it better. I complained a lot and fought a lot, but I could have avoided it all. It's too bad that I have regrets, but I know if I just linger then I'd just be upset with myself for the next few weeks.
I've been thinking about what I wanted to do and where I wanted to go. I have this idea for the summer, but I'm not sure where it will go. As of right now, I'm waiting upon Discovery which seems to be a smaller chance as each day goes on, but I know that one day, I'll be able to get to where I want to be and be back at that company. I have a temp job set up just in case I don't get Discovery, but I'm not sure as to where to go from here. This will be my last summer. Ever. No more 120 day summers, which I haven't had for the past 3 years, and no more spare time. Should I travel for two months, go back to the temp agency and start work then? Or should I just begin work right out of college? I know what people want me to do, but after I spoke with my mother, she didn't seem too worried if I got a job or not. It's as if she didn't care. I'll have to talk to them again to be sure, but if this is the case...then I think I might go for it. See Paris one last time, go to beautiful places of northern Europe and sunbath on the Mediterranean beaches? It all seems go glamorous, but I'll need a travel partner and money. Should I work for a few months, stop, then travel? I don't know! My brain is fussing with me and as I sit here, I should be finishing my last project of the semester, but all I can think about is what comes after.
What does come after? I know there are those sternies that graduate with jobs in the financial district starting at 60 grand a year, but I'm not one of those people. I don't like my cookie cutter lifestyle. I want to do exciting things, I want to live in LA and Paris for a few years. It's time for a change. I just don't know how to tell the people that are close to me that this is my next step. I don't know.
I've been thinking about what I wanted to do and where I wanted to go. I have this idea for the summer, but I'm not sure where it will go. As of right now, I'm waiting upon Discovery which seems to be a smaller chance as each day goes on, but I know that one day, I'll be able to get to where I want to be and be back at that company. I have a temp job set up just in case I don't get Discovery, but I'm not sure as to where to go from here. This will be my last summer. Ever. No more 120 day summers, which I haven't had for the past 3 years, and no more spare time. Should I travel for two months, go back to the temp agency and start work then? Or should I just begin work right out of college? I know what people want me to do, but after I spoke with my mother, she didn't seem too worried if I got a job or not. It's as if she didn't care. I'll have to talk to them again to be sure, but if this is the case...then I think I might go for it. See Paris one last time, go to beautiful places of northern Europe and sunbath on the Mediterranean beaches? It all seems go glamorous, but I'll need a travel partner and money. Should I work for a few months, stop, then travel? I don't know! My brain is fussing with me and as I sit here, I should be finishing my last project of the semester, but all I can think about is what comes after.
What does come after? I know there are those sternies that graduate with jobs in the financial district starting at 60 grand a year, but I'm not one of those people. I don't like my cookie cutter lifestyle. I want to do exciting things, I want to live in LA and Paris for a few years. It's time for a change. I just don't know how to tell the people that are close to me that this is my next step. I don't know.
Thursday, April 1, 2010
Social Media ADD
So, because I have an obsession with moving from one thing to the next, or what some may call, ADD, I've created a tumblr because...well, just because. It can house my more fleeting thoughts as well as photographs and spur of the moment quote I find on tumbler anyway.
I'll still be resorting back to blogspot for my longer and more thoughtful posts. However, I do doubt there will be many posts this month as everything in my academic career and the beginning of my actual career begins this month, well, the month of April.
I'm going be excusing myself this month from any longer posts this month as I have 6 presentations, 6 papers which includes my thesis, and 2 finals in the next 30 days. Work has begun to make me worry about whether or not my chances will be good in obtaining a job at Discovery, so I'll be working longer and harder the last 2 weeks. Plus, graduation is around the corner. I need to focus.
All in all, the past month except for Puerto Rico has basically been the same. Seeing as I've been cheated a year and am being an overachiever in taking a number of classes, my social life will be nonexistent. I choose not to post, because if I do write anything longer, I'm sure they'll all be rants about how I hate my life and school, which isn't very acceptable anymore.
Growing up is difficult. If you know of any jobs that would suit me well, although I doubt it, feel free to contact me. Otherwise, I'll be applying for anything and everything that comes my way. Granted they're fields I'm interested in.
Wish me luck.
I'll still be resorting back to blogspot for my longer and more thoughtful posts. However, I do doubt there will be many posts this month as everything in my academic career and the beginning of my actual career begins this month, well, the month of April.
I'm going be excusing myself this month from any longer posts this month as I have 6 presentations, 6 papers which includes my thesis, and 2 finals in the next 30 days. Work has begun to make me worry about whether or not my chances will be good in obtaining a job at Discovery, so I'll be working longer and harder the last 2 weeks. Plus, graduation is around the corner. I need to focus.
All in all, the past month except for Puerto Rico has basically been the same. Seeing as I've been cheated a year and am being an overachiever in taking a number of classes, my social life will be nonexistent. I choose not to post, because if I do write anything longer, I'm sure they'll all be rants about how I hate my life and school, which isn't very acceptable anymore.
Growing up is difficult. If you know of any jobs that would suit me well, although I doubt it, feel free to contact me. Otherwise, I'll be applying for anything and everything that comes my way. Granted they're fields I'm interested in.
Wish me luck.
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